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 31.07.2018   In-field Social Coaching

One of the most terrifying parts of communication is the "cold open" which is starting a conversation with someone you dont know at all.  Unfortunately, this is the most effective ways to connect with people and increase your social and professional value.  It is a proven fact that the more social connections you have the higher your pay is and of course the more opportunities one has for advancement. 

I have worked with a number of talented professionals who at first were not able to start a conversation with someone sitting right next to them.  They all had a sense of absolute terror when tasked with simply asking a question, let alone starting a conversation.  These individuals literally shut down.  They even proclaimed, "I am not capable of doing that. It´s not me."

I understand this fear and have felt that same terror.  I still do (at times). 

I know both sides to this challenge!  I have felt the shame and self-hate of not having the ability to open and connect with people right in front of me.  I have also felt how amazing it feels when I open and connect with people I find interesting or have a sense of attraction with (personally and professionally).

I have studied, practiied, researched, improved, presented and coached others to open, connect and empower people to become the person they wanted to become.  Charismatic, Social and Connected. 

I received a text message at 12:30 am from a client.

"I am at a party.  OMG this shit works. Thank you."

This coming from a guy who 4 weeks earlier couldnt ask the people sitting next to him What time is it?

Contact me if you want to have the ability to talk with and connect with anyone in any situation.

If you want to learn universal topics to open with, and how to create energy around you that naturally brings people to you...contact me and let the next chapter of your life begin.